Anything you can do I can do better :) :(

Insecurity, jealousy, backstabbing are all the sins that man/woman are vulnerable to commit drawn by the need of significance. You may be a brown in white society, a shortie, trying to make a mark without equipped with real influential skills, but if you are comfortable in your skin, content in being yourself you look richer than others. But you cannot protect yourself from insecure people who accuse you of stealing their glory from them for no reason at all. Whether they have missed their bus or they have lost focus of life is a question, if I see a talent in them, I celebrate it with them. I dont need to put more gas in my emotional tank by taking theirs.

If a gift has been stirred up find a way to work together so you can have a win-win situation. We can all

have a party in the end. Many of us operate through life as a zero-sum game. If someone else loses, I win.

Better even that we both lose than that they win and I don’t.

No person has ever died from a lack of sex…in fact when a person has a higher purpose in their life, they live willingly celibate. Money, power, prestige are all expressions of apparent significance. To be in a loving relationship we gain in our significance to others and they to us. A more mature person comes to realize that our attempts to gain signific- ance from others is futile as we can only be as significant as we are to ourselves…the rest is illusion.