When you’re speaking to a more conservative and traditional audience,

the style should be simple elegance. As the speaker, you want people to pay attention to what you say, rather than what you wear. However, as
a stylista, you want to add a little of your own style. 

In this situation, start with a very simple foundation—like a simple black or dark blue shirtdress (like the one here at Silhoulettes) or a

simple black or blue pants suit. Now, if you’re a hot mama like me, and have a little extra dough, you might even consider a red dress
with a more conservative, but still feminine, cut.

Next, use this trick I use whenever I speak in public—wear a fabulous, but simple, necklace (make sure it’s doesn’t reflect light, you don’t
want to blind your audience) or scarf close to your neck/face. Why? The placement of a scarf or necklace close to your face draws the
audience’s attention towards your mouth, and of course, your words.

As the old adage goes, dress for the job you want—and the clients you want—at networking events just as in the office. Here’s how:
1. Prepare to look professional and pulled together at impromptu meetings and last-minute event invitations by keeping a tailored
jacket in your office or car at all times.

2. Carry a small handbag with just your essentials (keys, lipstick, phone, business cards) and leave your briefcase or laptop bag in the
car. You don’t want to be the woman banging into everyone with her bag! And since you’ll need both hands free (for shaking and eating),
consider a shoulder bag over a clutch.

3. Do you know how far you will have to walk from the parking lot to the event? Factor that into your shoe (and pant or skirt) selection
for the day. Keep in mind that you will be coming from work, so your feet may already be tired and may tend to swell during the evening.

4. Freshen up your lipstick and eye makeup. Try navy blue eyeliner to make your eyes appear brighter and erase some of the day’s tension. Go
for a natural or neutral lip color to avoid the dreaded lipstick ring—and the lip print on your glass.